My Psycho Ex Has Returned!!!!!

[Rogue Angel]

........after two YEARS of peace and quiet.... [img]eek.gif[/img]

i got a phone call at work today... i picked up the line, said can i help you, and was greeted by the sound of my ex-husband's voice...

ummmmmmm... holy SHIT people!!!! that is NOT GOOD AT ALL.... i was shitting KITTENS. jesus. there are very good reasons that i have had no contact with him in 2 years or so... two words... "restraining order"... he's NUTS. totally totally nuts... he started out fine, but went to peices the longer we were married...

supposedly he was calling to see if i still had his class ring... he has used this line a number of times since we divorced... he KNOWS i don't have it, i've told him a million times over the years that i don't... it's an excuse to call... i didn't even know he KNEW the number of where i work... or had any idea that i still worked there... terrifyingly enough, he also knows that i still live in the same place, and that i got a new car last summer.... GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRfuck. that means he is still keeping tabs on me.... he has a girlfriend at least.. but he has in the past as well, and that really didn't keep him from stalking me...

i told him i didn't have the stupid thing, but that i would look again to make sure... he said he wasn't trying to cause trouble (yeah right... he never tries, he's just nutty and can't help it, i guess.).. then he informed me that he has been diagnosed with severe bipolar disorder and personality disorder and his doctor says he's bordering on being a sociopath... before i thought about it, i blurted out "well YEAH... i knew THAT."... (not a good idea to rile up the deviant, lol)... he didn't take it too badly, thank goodness, hahaha.... i tried to make it as short as possible... i never woulda picked up the phone had i known it was him... *sighs*... before the end of the conversation, he informed me that he can't lie and say he doesn't still think about me... i just said "uh huh"... i mean, what am i supposed to say? i am not cruel in nature, i just can't blurt out "well, i NEVER think of you... EVER... i barely even remember being married to you anymore because i blocked it out"... i just can't do it. even after everything he put me through during the last year we were married and the TWO years it took me to get divorced from him... i'm just not that kinda person.. he wanted me to call and let him know if i found his ring (again, yeah, right)... i didn't even write it down... hopefully it's just a crazy moment, and he won't contact me again... if it becomes a problem, i will have to call and have the restraining order put back into effect... or get another one, i dunno if that one would still be good after 2 years... *L*....

*GASP*... omg. i just told don this past weekend, and i totally forgot!!! we were talking on the phone, and i chuckled because someone drove by my house screaming and beeping their horn... i said it was probably my ex... i'll bet it WAS my ex.... ugh. what a fuckin day.... *shaking head*... i hope this doesn't become a problem that has to be addressed... again. [img]graemlins/wonder.gif[/img]

[petenv]

RA , You tell your family , lawyer and the police that he is back.

[ellanoize]

I could pay him a visit

[Rogue Angel]

already taken care of, pete and mrs g!! [img]wink.gif[/img]

and rog! i may take ya up on that if things get tense... [img]graemlins/devil.gif[/img]

[mRs.GaToR]

RA....do what Pete says....and let everyone know...
just in case something(God forbid) would happen!

*HUGS* ya cause I understand *S*

[SummerStorm]

i have a lovely sword you can borrow*EG*...hope everythings ok woman*hugs*

[BlackMagicRose]

Seriously get that Restraining Order put back in place. If he contacts you by phone or ANYTHING even through someone else he will go to jail. On a side note would you like to borrow my Kitana, butterfly knife or dagger? That doesn't include the swords and knives my Husband has...lol. Like I said if someone broke in here they'd find themselves on the other end of a blade. [img]eek.gif[/img]

[phoenixrising79]

Hey RA, just a note. Restraining orders are only good for a year which is probably why he is starting in again. Just be careful, your ex is sounding like the ex of mine I have one of those against.

[petenv]

Just be very careful RA.

[Rogue Angel]

i hear that! i know the troubles you guys have had... *hugggs*... so far so good... all is quiet at the moment... hopefully it stays that way... [img]wink.gif[/img]